One of my favorite childhood stories involved an Easter outing with my Grandmother when we lived in Italy. She had come to stay with us for a couple of weeks in the Spring of 1971 or 1972… it gets hazy exactly which. It was an exciting time. I think it was the one of the few times anyone in our extended family came to visit us anywhere, much less when we lived overseas.
"When once you have tasted flight, you will forever walk the earth with your eyes turned skyward, for there you have been, and there you will always long to return." -- Leonardo da Vinci
Monday, April 12, 2021
Friday, February 5, 2021
Growing up a Vagabond
We moved a lot. So much so, that I thought everybody did, until I got into Junior High School in Anacortes, and I realized all the people I knew had all gone to school with each other since Kindergarten, and were life long friends. Who had life-long friends? Didn’t everybody have to start over making friends, every other year? That’s what I did.
Moving involved a whole litany of events for military brats. There was the realizing you were leaving your comfortable relationships, and lots of curiosity and trepidation about this new, unknown place.
What was the base like?
What was the school like?
What were the kids like?
Where would we live?
Was there anything to do?
Would we make friends?
Then there was the packing. We got very familiar with Atlas and Mayflower Van Lines. The routine of putting numbers on all the pieces of furniture and boxes. Some places had stickers. Dad would pay us a nickle at the other end to go find the stickers placed in all the obscure places on furniture and remove them, taking to him as proof. Some you didn’t find until the next move.
Would the furniture you had make it to your next destination? There were horror stories we heard about moving trucks catching fire enroute and a family having nothing when they got to their next duty station. I think Mom was most afraid of that.
Would the furniture be broken? Or something stolen? We had a car shipped to Libya, and it arrived without the radio. Remarkably through all the moves, the vast majority of stuff Mom and Dad picked up made it intact, including some really valuable things like a sterling tea service, a globe bar, marble telephone, various pictures, and my favorite, the Tantalus.
What to do with it now that Mom & Dad are gone is the big question. All of us kids have our own houses full of our own stuff. As nice as theirs’ is, how do you incorporate it in your already-full house?
In all, we moved:
- 1961, George AFB, CA - RAF Bentwaters, UK (Dave was born)
- 1964, RAF Bentwaters, UK - George AFB, CA
— short TDY to Davis-Monthan AF, AZ (lasted probably 6-9 weeks)
- 1965, George AFB, CA - Anacortes, WA (Dad went to Vietnam, and I’m pretty sure dependents couldn’t live on base without their Sponsor back then)
- 1966, Anacortes, WA - George AFB (Girls were born)
- 1969, George AFB, CA - Wheelus AFB, (Tripoli, Libya) (Libya had a coup d’etat, so we were forced to leave early)
- 1970, Wheelus AFB, Tripoli, Libya - Aviano AFB, Italy
- 1972, Aviano AFB, Italy - Anacortes, WA (Dad went to Korea for a year)
- 1973, Anacortes, WA to Nellis AFB, (Las Vegas, NV)
- 1977, Nellis AFB, NV, to Luke AFB, AZ (Litchfield Park)
- 1978, College (US Air Force Academy for me).
Saturday, January 16, 2021
Places I’ve lived
I’ve been fortunate enough to live in a bunch of different places. My Dad was an Air Force fighter pilot, and there was a lot of moving around back then. I would say that before I graduated High School, we moved an average of every two years.
The fist place I live was in a apartment somewhere close to George Air Force Base, just outside of Victorville, California. Obviously I have no memory of it, but a friend of my Mom’s mentioned it recently, because they lived in the same complex.
Then we moved to RAF Bentwaters, in England, where my brother Dave was born. I don’t remember too much about that, other than it was on base housing, with the backyard up against a fence on the flightline. I remember the engine noise as they did engine runs, or got ready to take off. The F-100s had a very distinct sound.
When we moved back to the States, we moved to George AFB again, where Dad flew F-4s. That lasted about a year, then Dad went to Vietnam with the 433rd Tactical Fighter Squadron, and we moved up to Anacortes, Washington, into the house on the beach that Mom & Dad bought from Ken and Carolyn. We were there from 2nd half of Kindergarten, to the first half of first grade. Then it was back to George AFB again.
When we came back from Italy, Dad was assigned to a remote tour in Korea for a year, so we headed back up to Anacortes, and our house on the beach. By then I was starting 7th grade, was playing sports in the band, and had friends from around the island. My cousins, Kenny, Becky, Rick and Kathy Holland were doing things like going to college, getting married, getting jobs, and going off to the US Coast Guard. Mike and Lane Crawford lived up the hill, and Dennis and Loree DeVries lived a bike’s ride away, all on Fidalgo Island.
When Dad came home, we moved to Las Vegas, Nevada, and Nellis AFB. We lived in base housing again, at the top of the housing area on officer’s hill. 6b Hogenmiller Circle. Typical block concrete base housing duplex. Painted yellow/beige. No real yard per se, just a metal carport we would climb on top of and throw water balloons from.
The last place we lived before I left for college was 345 Trontera Circle, Litchfield Park, Arizona. Nice ranch house in a planned community just outside Glendale. Had a golf course and resort called the Wigwam in it. Palm trees on all the streets, and a small lake across the road from our house. It was a nice house: Dad shocked all of us one day by announcing he was having an in-ground pool installed. It was glorious!
The first year I was at Griffiss, I lived in a townhouse in Utica, just down the road. But after we got married and it looked like Laura was going to get the Joint Assignment to the Rome Air Development Center at the base, we started looking for houses. We found a nice 3 bedroom ranch with a big kitchen and living room on a pretty decent piece of property at 6222 Lorena Road, in Rome, NY.
In 1990, Laura and I decided to leave Active Duty, primarily because our ability to get more joint assignments was quickly diminishing. As Laura rose in rank, her assignments would focus on Command positions and very limited weather opportunities, while my career path in B-52s would be at schools, bases and headquarters assignments. The chance the two of us could flow together was very slim back then. With Jill on the way, it just seemed right to try something different, so we came home to Zelienople.
Once we got here, I had a job in Canonsburg and was flying with the Reserves, we needed to find a place to live. Laura made the astute observation that while living in the South Hills might work well for where I worked now, I could get anywhere from Zelienople now that I-79 and I-279 were open. So we decided to look in town, and found 115 Wayne Avenue, down the street and two left turns from her parents house. It was a nice house, and about the same value for the house we sold in New York, so no big stretch on the income.
The idea was to stay in the house about 5 years, then move into something different as the kids grew in size and number. That never quite happened. A.) We loved the location - in town, on a dead-end street, quiet neighborhood, bordering the park and walkable close to Main Street. B.) everytime I thought about moving, something else put our income in jeopardy. I got laid off from Cooper Power Systems; Spectrum Engineers ran into financial challenges, so I joined US Airways. Then US Airways was going to go out of business, get bought out by United, the Flight Attendants were going to go on strike, etc. And then I started deploying…